Meet Our Top Coaches!


While every Ask Mars Venus coach is highly skilled and extensively trained in the expert relationship advice of John Gray, top coaches find their way to the head of the class when they excel in three main areas: subject matter expertise; a relatable, non-judgmental, and empathetic personality; and receipt of excellent client feedback. Each Ask Mars Venus coach is evaluated carefully and regularly to ensure adherence to the Mars Venus message and to maintain an impeccable level of knowledge and service.

You will find that no two Ask Mars Venus relationship coaches are alike. While they all spread the same tried-and-true principles of Mars Venus, every coach is unique in their own right, helping clients find their way in relationships through specially crafted, solution-oriented techniques.


Meet Coach Lauren B.

Always interested in what it takes to make relationships successful, Coach Lauren says, “Communication, mutual acceptance, and understanding are important to the life of any relationship. When I read John Gray's books, I discovered that a whole new language exists.” She has since made it her job to spread this message and help people avoid painful situations. Whether you’re single and looking or in an established relationship, Lauren says, “After talking with me you will not only feel better but have a plan of action. No matter how old you are, these techniques can still improve your life.” If you’re hurting or immobilized, there is hope – Lauren can help you see your obstacles as challenges and opportunities to make your life better.

While Coach Lauren is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Improving communication
  • Accepting people for who they are
  • Overcoming grief and learning how to heal
  • Starting over

Callers have described Coach Lauren as determined and direct, yet sensitive and able to make them feel safe.





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Meet Coach Christine B.

According to Coach Christine, “Your challenges can become dreams, no matter where you are in your life today.” When you’re trying to maneuver through relationship hurdles, cope with life changes, and manage your stress all at the same time, the world can get to be a bit overwhelming. Christine is the coach who can guide you on your journey to finding the happiness you desire. “Through John Gray’s wisdom and principles, I can help you uncover feelings you didn’t even know you had—and that’s a good thing,” she says. Christine has the Mars Venus tools at her fingertips and is ready to introduce them to you.

While Coach Christine is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Dealing with wedding jitters
  • Expressing yourself
  • Establishing trust
  • Determining if you’re in the wrong relationship

Callers have described Coach Christine as attentive, inspiring, relatable, and motivating.





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Meet Coach Gwen F.

After reading Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, Coach Gwen says, “I learned that when you love and accept yourself for who you are, you will open yourself up to having the intimate relationships you desire.” As a coach, Gwen spreads this message to help her clients take the right steps to get where they want to be in their love life. Gwen is the voice of reason when emotions take the place of logic and the heart overtakes the head. “It doesn’t matter what situation you are in, the Mars Venus philosophies can help you lead a happier, healthier life, whether that means learning better communication skills, having better sex, or going on more dates.”

While Coach Gwen is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Handling major shifts in relationships
  • Dealing with rejection
  • Coming to terms with choices you’ve made
  • Repairing what’s been done

Callers have described Coach Gwen as understanding, thoughtful, patient, and soft-spoken.





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Meet Coach Debbie P.

Coach Debbie describes Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus as “the beginning of my relationship discovery journey.” Since then, she has dedicated herself to making light bulbs go off over the heads of every client. It’s not always easy to understand why you think or feel the way you do, but through Debbie, understanding can dawn and healing can occur. “If you don't like the chapter your life is in, learn how to start a new one,” she says. “Our life is a journey, and we are our life's author. I can help you turn the page and start fresh.”

While Coach Debbie is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Improving self-esteem
  • Truly understanding the opposite sex
  • Smart communication
  • Infidelity

Callers have described Coach Debbie as objective, considerate, responsive, and asking pertinent and enlightening questions.





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Meet Coach Anne B.

When you feel as though you just don’t know how to manage the frustrations and misunderstandings of your relationships, Coach Anne B. is ready to provide clarity. She says, “I want to enable you to experience enlightenment, to help you better understand the man or woman in your life.” This is, after all, what relationships are all about – seeing the real reasons behind another’s motivations and learning to accept your inherent differences so that love can thrive. Anne knows how easy it can be to fall into a mode where you expect the worst to happen, where negativity reigns – but the natural ups and downs of relationships don’t have to leave you feeling hopeless. She can help you find the source of your pain, work through it, and invite new possibilities into your life.

While Coach Anne is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Dealing with feelings of neglect
  • Resolving negative emotions
  • Seeing issues from another person’s point of view
  • Decoding his behavior

Callers have described Coach Anne as compassionate, able to relate, attentive, and reassuring.






Meet Coach Page T.
A strong believer in the Mars Venus principles, Coach Page says “There is such a need for better understanding!  We are wired so differently that miscommunications and hard feelings are inevitable unless each of us can see the other's point of view.”  The combination of her experience and knowledge in how to resolve conflict gives her the ability to help any caller with any situation.  No matter what situation you are in, Page says “Using compassion, empathy, and humor, I’ll support you as you move towards a fresh perspective of your situation and gain new insights that will help resolve your problems.”  Learn more about Page by clicking the “Learn More” link to the right.

While Coach Page is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Building self-confidence
  • Communicating your feelings
  • Overcoming obstacles
  • Creating a successful long-term relationship

Callers have described Coach Page as insightful, empathetic, and considerate.






Meet Coach Cyndi S.

Feeling stuck? Need help moving forward? Coach Cyndi’s natural curiosity enhances her role and enables her to unearth the unwanted ingredients that may be adding to the current stress in your life or relationship. Cyndi was drawn to Mars Venus many years ago while trying to make sense of some personal strife and she hasn’t looked back. “The Mars Venus principles are the path to thinking and approaching issues in a new way,” she says. “It can be confusing and frustrating to love and even the very best of intentions may not work.” With Cyndi you can grow from your experiences and practice the skills necessary to create the kind of love and commitment you want for your life.

While Coach Cyndi is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Making the right decisions
  • Dealing with doubts
  • Managing stress
  • Finding satisfaction in life and love

Callers have described Coach Cyndi as patient, kind-hearted, and perceptive.






Meet Coach Mary Beth M.

If you ask Coach Mary Beth, she will tell you that a major component for making relationships work is being able to find the good in any challenges that arise. “Every situation is unique and involves a multitude of known and unknown elements,” Mary Beth says. “I want to help you improve how you’re feeling and turn your situation around.” To do this, Mary Beth relies on the Mars Venus principles… and her strong sense of humor. She knows that it’s better to learn how to let go of the disappointments and work through the hard times rather than hold on to them and lament what could have been. Compassionate, patient, and non-judgmental, Mary Beth connects with her clients quickly to help each one of them find balance and contentment.

While Coach Mary Beth is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Making sense of your confusion
  • Finding a soul mate
  • Repairing what’s been done
  • Online dating

Callers have described Coach Mary Beth as concerned, understanding, and practical.






Meet Coach Adrienne R.

When it comes to communication, Coach Adrienne believes what is not said is equally as important as what is stated. Through a process of probing questions and active listening, Adrienne takes you through the emotional journey of creating a successful relationship, whether you are single and dating or have been married for years. “The secret is to find the joy in the challenge, embrace the journey and learn as much as possible from the detours of life.” Let Adrienne be your guide to the kind of relationship you desire.

While Coach Adrienne is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Understanding your partner’s motivations
  • Improving communication with loved ones
  • Emotional pain
  • Removing the barriers to success

Callers have described Coach Adrienne as empathetic, intelligent, understanding, and an excellent instructor.






Meet Coach Mary W.
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There is no shame in reaching out for a helping hand, and Coach Mary is ready to be the confidante who guides you through your challenges and celebrations. “Everyone can benefit from looking to someone outside of their situation for support,” she says. A realist, Mary understands that, “Every relationship will, at some point, encounter conflict, and that’s normal.” Working through these roadblocks in a healthy way, using time-tested Mars Venus techniques, is what will produce a strong partnership. “Relationships are like gardens—they need care and nurturing to grow,” Mary says. Find focus and the right path for your love life with this coach’s positive messages and solutions.

While Coach Mary is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Finding happiness again
  • Stopping a problem before it starts
  • Emotional affairs
  • Making your relationship work

Callers have described Coach Mary as a fantastic listener who is kind-hearted and encouraging.






Meet Coach Lorrie M.
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Coach Lorrie’s biggest passion is to make a difference in another person’s life. Recognizing the individual needs of every caller, Lorrie says, “I understand that each client is very unique and no two situations are ever alike, even if two people are calling for the same reason.” A long-time follower of the Mars Venus message, Lorrie knows from personal experience that these principles work. “This helps me put myself into the client’s shoes and understand what they must be feeling, which is invaluable for helping my clients work through their particular situations.” Lorrie’s ultimate goal is to help people see the love and joy that can exist in their relationships.

While Coach Lorrie is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Life after a breakup
  • Making love last
  • Understanding the differences between men and women
  • Recognizing different expressions of love

Callers have described Coach Lorrie as empathetic, open-minded, compassionate, and interested.








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