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Meet Our Top Coaches!


While every Ask Mars Venus coach is highly skilled and extensively trained in the expert relationship advice of John Gray, top coaches find their way to the head of the class when they excel in three main areas: subject matter expertise; a relatable, non-judgmental, and empathetic personality; and receipt of excellent client feedback. Each Ask Mars Venus coach is evaluated carefully and regularly to ensure adherence to the Mars Venus message and to maintain an impeccable level of knowledge and service.

You will find that no two Ask Mars Venus relationship coaches are alike. While they all spread the same tried-and-true principles of Mars Venus, every coach is unique in their own right, helping clients find their way in relationships through specially crafted, solution-oriented techniques.


Meet Coach Debbie P.

Coach Debbie describes Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus as “the beginning of my relationship discovery journey.” Since then, she has dedicated herself to making light bulbs go off over the heads of every client. It’s not always easy to understand why you think or feel the way you do, but through Debbie, understanding can dawn and healing can occur. “If you don't like the chapter your life is in, learn how to start a new one,” she says. “Our life is a journey, and we are our life's author. I can help you turn the page and start fresh.”

While Coach Debbie is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Improving self-esteem
  • Truly understanding the opposite sex
  • Smart communication
  • Infidelity

Callers have described Coach Debbie as objective, considerate, responsive, and asking pertinent and enlightening questions.





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Meet Coach Mara C.

Coach Mara has made it her duty to be part of the solution, to support people as they maneuver through life and love’s many ups and downs. “Together we can lift up the cover on the deeper layers and take a peek at what lies beneath,” she explains. For Mara, it’s integral to create a safe place of discovery for each of her callers. “I want to empower you to understand that your primary relationship is with yourself—a healthy personal outlook can only create richer and more loving romantic relationships.” Honest methods of exploration combined with the Mars Venus principles enable Mara to be discerning and provide you with valuable clarity.

While Coach Mara is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Figuring out what your partner is thinking
  • Improving relationship dynamics
  • Managing your guilt
  • Finding the strength to forgive

Callers have described Coach Mara as insightful, a fantastic listener, and knowledgeable.






Meet Coach Christine B.

According to Coach Christine, “Your challenges can become dreams, no matter where you are in your life today.” When you’re trying to maneuver through relationship hurdles, cope with life changes, and manage your stress all at the same time, the world can get to be a bit overwhelming. Christine is the coach who can guide you on your journey to finding the happiness you desire. “Through John Gray’s wisdom and principles, I can help you uncover feelings you didn’t even know you had—and that’s a good thing,” she says. Christine has the Mars Venus tools at her fingertips and is ready to introduce them to you.

While Coach Christine is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Dealing with wedding jitters
  • Expressing yourself
  • Establishing trust
  • Determining if you’re in the wrong relationship

Callers have described Coach Christine as attentive, inspiring, relatable, and motivating.





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Meet Coach Susan B.

“We all want to feel understood, connected, and have a safe place to express our deepest feelings and fears,” says Coach Susan. You can find this kind of comfort by talking to Susan, a coach who will help you discover your own individual strengths so that your connections with others can be that much more meaningful. “Once you see your own magnificence, others will see it too,” Susan explains. She is aware, of course, that it’s normal to struggle in relationships, and says, “We sometimes need to alter our course and reach out for extra instruction to make love happen successfully. Mars Venus coaching will guide you to your best relationships.”

While Coach Susan is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Knowing when to pursue, and when not
  • Understanding uncertainty
  • Finding balance
  • Accepting your vulnerability

Callers have described Coach Susan as a kindhearted coach who offers supportive, helpful feedback and is energizing and incredibly empathetic.





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Meet Coach Merna T.

“We all have experienced love, loss, hurt, pain, and glory in our lives. I am here to listen and help a caller with all their concerns – from relationships to work, family to friends,” says Coach Merna, who offers the methods and suggestions to callers that she has tested through her own personal trial and error. She aims to help people love themselves and accept their own limitations before attempting to concentrate on loving and understanding another person. Regardless of your situation, struggles, or stage in life, Merna says, “The Mars Venus principles can help you learn to love yourself, accept others for who they are, and find peace and contentment within yourself.”

While Coach Merna is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Accepting yourself
  • Maintaining your personal beliefs in a relationship
  • Surviving the single life
  • Determining whether to end or fix a relationship 

Callers have described Coach Merna as down-to-earth, someone who makes them feel comfortable, presents the issues in black and white, and offers valuable guidance.





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Meet Coach Melodie T.

“I’ve had the privilege to work with hundreds of men and women with every imaginable relationship concern, including issues on dating, commitment, marriage, infidelity, and starting over after a loss,” says Coach Melodie, who first stumbled upon the wisdom of Mars Venus when looking for her own help and answers. Melodie considers relationship education her life’s calling and revels in the opportunity to share the skills she has learned and inspire people to discover their own highest potential. “Teaching others how to apply John Gray’s principles to their own relationships is the sweetest work in the universe. I can help you discover a whole new world with Mars Venus.”

While Coach Melodie is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Couples coaching
  • Challenges in marriage
  • Educating your children about dating and relationships
  • Achieving personal success and fulfillment

Callers have described Coach Melodie as open-minded, compassionate, knowledgeable, and down-to-earth.





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Meet Coach Cheri S.

“If life is a journey, a coach's role is to help a client navigate through the flat tires, wrong turns, and misadventures they encounter along the way,” says Coach Cheri, who is focused on getting you to the place you want to be in your life and relationships. Her belief is that each person holds the answers to their own questions, but that it is her duty, as your Ask Mars Venus coach, to help you work through your concerns and worries to get to those answers. Cheri stresses that, “Even if the problem seems common, the solution is personal and unique to that individual.” Cheri will guide you to truly understand and define what is behind the issue at hand so that together you can be catalysts for positive change in your life.

While Coach Cheri is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Figuring out what you really want
  • Accepting change
  • Understanding your anger
  • Coming to terms with choices you’ve made

Callers have described Coach Cheri as an empowering and positive coach with a comforting voice of reason.






Meet Coach Sonja K.

Men and women are made to fit together, but Coach Sonja knows that sometimes this co-existence can be a little tricky to maneuver. She is determined to help you enjoy your relationship while appreciating the natural differences between you and your partner, without falling prey to stress. “Each person’s concerns and relationships are unique,” says Sonja, who is ready to support and motivate you, whatever the situation—no issue is ever too small. Sonja believes, “There is great value in taking the time to understand that your partner doesn’t always see things the way you do, and to realize that this is ok.” As your coach, Sonja will help you develop a plan, create choices, and embrace the possibilities.

While Coach Sonja is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Moving in together
  • Problems with commitment
  • The art of multi-dating
  • The ex-files

Callers have described Coach Sonja as a generous coach who is resourceful and always ready with effective advice and techniques. 






Meet Coach Mary Beth M.

If you ask Coach Mary Beth, she will tell you that a major component for making relationships work is being able to find the good in any challenges that arise. “Every situation is unique and involves a multitude of known and unknown elements,” Mary Beth says. “I want to help you improve how you’re feeling and turn your situation around.” To do this, Mary Beth relies on the Mars Venus principles… and her strong sense of humor. She knows that it’s better to learn how to let go of the disappointments and work through the hard times rather than hold on to them and lament what could have been. Compassionate, patient, and non-judgmental, Mary Beth connects with her clients quickly to help each one of them find balance and contentment.

While Coach Mary Beth is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Making sense of your confusion
  • Finding a soul mate
  • Repairing what’s been done
  • Online dating

Callers have described Coach Mary Beth as concerned, understanding, and practical.






Meet Coach Cass I.
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Looking for the most effective path to a solution for your relationship concerns? Coach Cass firmly believes that answers come from understanding and accepting the motivation behind basic human nature—in other words, the differences between men and women—and her goal is to guide you to a better grasp of these inherent variations between the sexes. For Cass, it’s important to offer enlightenment about why people act the way they do so that the right steps can be taken to resolve any issues you may be juggling. Whether it’s online dating that has you frustrated or you’re panicking about the future of your relationship, Cass says, “Your questions, worries, and confusion are important and valid, no matter how small you may think your concerns are.”

While Coach Cass is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Alternative lifestyles
  • Healing from your past
  • Dating ups and downs
  • Understanding your own behavior

Callers have described Coach Cass as a great listener, reassuring, and impartial.






Meet Coach Lauren B.
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Always interested in what it takes to make relationships successful, Coach Lauren says, “Communication, mutual acceptance, and understanding are important to the life of any relationship. When I read John Gray's books, I discovered that a whole new language exists.” She has since made it her job to spread this message and help people avoid painful situations. Whether you’re single and looking or in an established relationship, Lauren says, “After talking with me you will not only feel better but have a plan of action. No matter how old you are, these techniques can still improve your life.” If you’re hurting or immobilized, there is hope – Lauren can help you see your obstacles as challenges and opportunities to make your life better.

While Coach Lauren is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Improving communication
  • Accepting people for who they are
  • Overcoming grief and learning how to heal
  • Starting over

Callers have described Coach Lauren as determined and direct, yet sensitive and able to make them feel safe.






Meet Coach Lorrie M.
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Coach Lorrie’s biggest passion is to make a difference in another person’s life. Recognizing the individual needs of every caller, Lorrie says, “I understand that each client is very unique and no two situations are ever alike, even if two people are calling for the same reason.” A long-time follower of the Mars Venus message, Lorrie knows from personal experience that these principles work. “This helps me put myself into the client’s shoes and understand what they must be feeling, which is invaluable for helping my clients work through their particular situations.” Lorrie’s ultimate goal is to help people see the love and joy that can exist in their relationships.

While Coach Lorrie is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Life after a breakup
  • Making love last
  • Understanding the differences between men and women
  • Recognizing different expressions of love

Callers have described Coach Lorrie as empathetic, open-minded, compassionate, and interested.






Meet Coach Mary W.
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There is no shame in reaching out for a helping hand, and Coach Mary is ready to be the confidante who guides you through your challenges and celebrations. “Everyone can benefit from looking to someone outside of their situation for support,” she says. A realist, Mary understands that, “Every relationship will, at some point, encounter conflict, and that’s normal.” Working through these roadblocks in a healthy way, using time-tested Mars Venus techniques, is what will produce a strong partnership. “Relationships are like gardens—they need care and nurturing to grow,” Mary says. Find focus and the right path for your love life with this coach’s positive messages and solutions.

While Coach Mary is well-versed in all of the Mars Venus dating and relationship principles, callers often turn to her specifically for help with:

  • Finding happiness again
  • Stopping a problem before it starts
  • Emotional affairs
  • Making your relationship work

Callers have described Coach Mary as a fantastic listener who is kind-hearted and encouraging.