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Give her a long back rub, emphasizing her sensitive spots.
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| | 2 | | Venusians:
Play his favorite music tonight as you dine. If you don't know what his favorites are...ask!
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| | 3 | | Martians:
Kiss her today without initiating sex. Let her know that you love and desire her all the time - not just as a prelude to sex.
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| | 4 | | Date Night Happy July 4th! Martians & Venusians:
Enjoy the fireworks together on a comfy blanket, then make your own sparks later at home!
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| 5 | | Martians & Venusians:
Enjoy a sporty date this afternoon, like bowling, mini-golf or paddle boating.
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| | 6 | | Venusians:
Make this a week of working on improving communication. Let your partner be the expert on himself and spend the week learning about him as if it were for the first time.
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| | 7 | | Martians:
Leave her a note this morning telling her all the reasons you love her.
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| | 8 | | Venusians:
Never forget: he is with you because he loves you!
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| | 9 | | Martians:
When she needs reassurance, offer it willingly and without judgement.
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| | 10 | | Venusians
Organize a scavenger hunt for that special Martian in your life and have it end at your house with a romantic dinner that YOU made. Sent in by Linda
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| | 11 | | Date Night Martians & Venusians:
After an early dinner at home, work together to build a giant banana split for you to share as you watch the sun set.
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| 12 | | Martians & Venusians:
Pick a favorite memory you and your partner share: relive it with the help of photos, memorabilia, or souvenirs.
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| | 13 | | Venusians:
Slip a note in his pocket telling him a sensual thought you have about him - it will keep him smiling all day!
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| | 14 | | Martians:
While watching TV tonight, have her sit in front of you while you stroke her hair with your fingers or a brush.
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| | 15 | | Venusians:
Send us your romantic idea of the day. Click here!
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| | 16 | | Martians:
When you get home tonight, ask her how her day was. Really listen to her as she answers you, and ask her several questions. She'll appreciate your interest.
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| | 17 | | Venusians:
Tell your man something he did this week that you appreciated. Thank him.
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| | 18 | | Date Night Martians & Venusians:
Have a candle light dinner by the beach. After dinner, have coffee or tea and dance in the sand. End the night with a goodnight kiss. Sent in by a Reader
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| 19 | | Martians & Venusians:
Get out a map and calendar and plan a trip away together.
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| | 20 | | Martians:
After dinner, run a bath for your sweetie, complete with rose petals, candles, and wine.
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| | 21 | | Venusians:
If he pulls away after being close, that's the rubber band acting. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Trust that he is doing the very best for you both.
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| | 22 | | Martians:
Compliment her at least two times today. Remember, she loves feeling respected.
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| | 23 | | Venusians:
Remember - he needs trust, acceptance, and appreciation. When your partner gets what he needs, he will be eager to fulfill your needs.
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| | 24 | | Martians:
Find her when you get home and give her a hug - before you do anything else.
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| | 25 | | Date Night Martians & Venusians:
Have a summer backyard bash. Invite friends, decorate, and serve festive food and drink!
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| 26 | | Martians & Venusians:
Plan a date night for one evening this week. Share the responsibilities of finding a sitter, making reservations, and getting all the details taken care of.
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| | 27 | | Venusians:
Take a walk together after dinner.
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| | 28 | | Martians:
Kiss each other for longer than 1 minute at least 3 times today.
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| | 29 | | Venusians:
Surprise him by packing his lunch and slip in a love note.
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| | 30 | | Martians:
When she talks... don't interrupt- let her finish!
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| | 31 | | Venusians:
Show him you care by accepting him as he is today.
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