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Dr. John Gray


John Gray is the bestselling relationship author of all time.

Dr. John Gray is the author of 15 books, including Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (Harper Collins 1992), the number one best-selling relationship book of the last decade. In the past 10 years, over 30 million Mars and Venus books have been sold in over 40 languages throughout the world.

Dr. John Gray, a certified family therapist, is the premier Better Life relationship coach on AOL. In 2001, he received the Smart Marriages Impact Award. John Gray received his degree in 1982 from Columbia Pacific University. For more information about this degree, click here.

Dr. John Gray has authored 14 other best-selling books: What You Feel You Can Heal (Heart Publishing 1984), Men, Women and Relationships (Beyond Words Publishing 1993), Mars and Venus in the Bedroom (Harper Collins 1995), Mars and Venus Together Forever (Harper Perennial 1996), Mars and Venus in Love (Harper Collins 1996), Mars and Venus on a Date (Harper Collins 1997), Mars and Venus Starting Over (Harper Collins 1998), Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus Book of Days (Harper Collins 1998), How To Get What You Want and Want What You Have (Harper Collins 1999), Children Are from Heaven (Harper Collins 1999), Practical Miracles for Mars and Venus (Harper Collins 2000), How To Get What You Want at Work (Harper Collins 2002), and Truly Mars & Venus (Harper Collins 2003).

Dr. John Gray’s latest book, The Mars & Venus Diet & Exercise Solution (St. Martin’s Press 2003), reveals why diet, exercise, and communication skills combine to affect the production of healthy brain chemicals and how the need for those chemicals differ between men and women.

An internationally recognized expert in the fields of communication and relationships, Dr. John Gray’s unique focus is assisting men and women in understanding, respecting, and appreciating their differences. For more than 30 years, he has conducted public and private seminars for thousands of participants. In his highly acclaimed books, audiotapes, and videotapes, as well as in his seminars, Dr. John Gray entertains and inspires audiences with his practical insights and easy to use communication techniques that can be immediately applied to enrich relationships and the quality of life.

Dr. John Gray is a popular speaker on the national and international lecture circuit and often appears on television and radio programs to discuss his work. He has made guest appearances on such shows as Oprah, Good Morning America, The Today Show, The CBS Morning Show, Live with Regis, The View, Politically Incorrect, Larry King Live The Roseanne Show, CNN and Company, and many others. He has been profiled in USA Today, Newsweek, Time Magazine, TV Guide, People, Forbes, and numerous other major publications across the United States.

Dr. John Gray’s nationally syndicated column reaches 30 million readers in many newspapers, including The Atlanta Journal/Constitution, New York Daily News, New York Newsday, The Denver Post, and the San Antonio Express-News. Internationally, the columns appear in publications in England, Canada, Mexico, Korea, and in Latin American and the South Pacific.

Dr. John Gray lives with his wife and three children in Northern California.