Whatever the dirty details of your break up with your ex, the first thing we want to say is “Congratulations!” We applaud you for having the courage to walk away from a relationship that wasn’t right. Obviously, there could be many reasons you’re not with your lady anymore —chances are, the dissatisfaction in your relationship stemmed from your ex neglecting to meet your primary needs:  trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. This test is a good way to pinpoint how some of your girlfriend’s personality traits may have contributed to the end of your relationship. You can also learn how to keep those 90/10 issues at bay and figure out how to avoid comparing any future partners to your ex and her bad habits! It might not have been your best relationship, but one helpful way to start getting over a hurt heart is to find some humor in the sadness… so just what kind of insect most closely resembles your ex?

Remember that this is an online test – not every question will capture your personal beliefs. Do your best to pick the answers that most closely represent your opinions.

Click here to take "What Kind of Bug is Your Ex-boyfriend?"

1. Her idea of romance was …

Spending the entire weekend together in bed snuggling
Flirting with strangers, then approaching you and acting like you just met
A gift in a blue Tiffany’s box
She didn’t believe in romance

2. When you went to the movies she would …

Sit beside you, but insist that she buy her own snacks
Pout until you agreed to see the latest animated flick
Smile and toss her hair at the ticket taker
Wrap her arm through yours, feed you popcorn, and kiss you every few minutes

3. Her favorite meal was …

A steak dinner and a stiff martini
Macaroni and cheese
Any fast food
Whatever your favorite meal was

4. Her best friend …

Knew every detail about you, right down to the location of your birthmarks
Shook your hand and asked how you were doing in the stock market
Had never heard of you before
Looked you up and down and asked what you did for a living