Whatever the dirty details of your break up with your ex, the first thing we want to say is “Congratulations!” We applaud you for having the courage to walk away from a relationship that wasn’t right. Obviously, there could be many reasons you’re not with your guy anymore – chances are, the dissatisfaction in your relationship stemmed from your ex neglecting to meet your primary needs:  caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance. This test is a good way to pinpoint how some of your boyfriend’s personality traits may have contributed to the end of your relationship. You can also learn how to keep those 90/10 issues far, far away and figure out how to avoid comparing any future partners to your ex and his bad habits! It might not have been your best relationship, but one helpful way to start getting over a hurt heart is to find some humor in the sadness … so just what kind of insect most closely resembles your ex?

Remember that this is an online test – not every question will capture your personal beliefs. Do your best to pick the answers that most closely represent your opinions.

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1. For Valentine’s Day, he …

Scribbled his signature on a coffee-stained card
Gave you some carnations, but bought his mom a dozen roses
Asked for a massage, and then watched his favorite TV show
Went out with the guys

2. When it came to his devotion, you felt like …

His mom was at the top of the list
He wanted you to come first, but just couldn’t make it happen
He considered himself number one
He was seriously devoted to the strip club

3. Every night at bedtime, he …

Had insomnia and watched TV till the wee hours
Never went to bed – he never came home from the bar in the first place
Called his mom to tell her goodnight
Turned off the lights early, even though you were still reading

4. Your ex had a pet …

Poodle, because he liked to dress it in cute outfits
Fish, because it was easy to admire and didn’t require much attention
Siamese cat, and thought it was funny that the animal despised you
Snake, even though he knew you were deathly afraid of them