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Has infidelity touched your life?


Tell us how infidelity has touched your life.

Do you suspect that a current or former partner is, or has been, unfaithful?

Has your partner been unfaithful?

Have you been unfaithful to a partner/had an affair?

A few comments from our readers...
"I have a friend who, having had several failed relationships since her divorce, decided to target only married men.
She felt 'all the good ones are still married... what's left out there isn't worth having, they've all got something wrong'.

She is now waiting for her married lover's divorce to come through, he's leaving his wife & children for her,they know nothing about her. She doesn't feel in the slightest bit guilty. She believes she's entitled to have him, and his wife doesn't deserve him.

She's never been on the other side of things so has no concept of the pain it causes."
"I do not believe 'once a cheater, always a cheater.' I do believe that serial cheaters will continue to cheat no matter what.

I cheated once. A very long time ago, I was young, I was unhappy in my relationship, and I went outside of it.

I would never do it again, I know I wouldn't. I would leave my relationship first, I would never intentionally hurt someone like that again.

And, I have been cheated on, and I know how it feels now, and I would never want anyone to feel how I felt/feel."
   
"I remember once my married man's friend asked me much later how I felt when I found out he was married. I said devastated. And the friend just nodded his head, because he figured I was hurt for being lied to.

But that was really the least of it. When I found out the guy I was in love with was married, my thoughts were these: how dare he lie to me, he'll never leave his wife, how could he do such a thing to me to allow me to fall for him knowing we wouldn't have any future, oh that explains a lot of things about his erratic behavior and unavailability, and oh my this man is capable of cheating on his wife so if I was with him permanently I would never be secure."
"But I do have a question for the betrayed women. Say you never found out your husband was cheating. What difference would it make then? To you, not anyone else. Because you've got his time and attention and money and children and the position in the community. If you never knew, how does it impact you? Can't it be that it doesn't really matter?"