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post 10/07/11 09:41 PM
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Del...it seems this M has commitment/intimacy issues...I think we all at one time or another have fallen for the wrong man...

I hope this did give you some closure...I know you are hurting right now, but in time, you will be ready to meet the right M...

In the meantime, nurture yourself...let yourself feel the emotion and begin the healing...

Hugs your way, girl...
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post 10/10/11 10:17 AM
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Thanks Anad. He has texted me a few times since we saw each other. Nothing serious, just banter and conversational stuff about movies he recommends and stuff.

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post 10/10/11 10:39 AM
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Delfina.
You began this thread in June, having already experienced 3 weeks of this guy pulling away and telling you that he wanted space. It's now mid October. So there we have a little over 4 months of this push pull cycle, giving you no opportunity whatsoever to heal from this relationship and move on to someone who is worthy of you....You could be healed and ready to be with a wonderful guy who will truly love you and adore you. And be there, committted.

This M needs to be in or out. He will continue to contact you in this way to keep you on the line...totally CP behaviour. Meanwhile, during the time the CP is doing this to their ex partner, the ex partner is frozen in limbo, not moving on.
I do believe it's time for you to make a firm declaration to this guy, one way or the other.
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post 10/10/11 10:42 AM
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I hit send too soon. Just wanted to add, that this break up has lasted almost as long as the relationship did ! This could drag on for more months or even years if you don't take some action.
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