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 "HELP" confused not sure what i should do, what could he be doing? |
  06/15/05 07:58 AM
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AMVU Freshman  Gender: 
Venusian
Group: Registered Users Posts: 6 Joined: 05/10/05  |
I started seeing/talking this a very nice guy about 3/4 weeks ago. Within the first week we had two dates and spoke on the phone or the computer everyday. we both agreed that we would not have sex until much later. He does not believe in casual sex and he would have to be inlove with me before we did it. I do know he is looking for a serious relationship as am i. He is very very busy with his business and i knew this when we started talking. It is two weeks today since we last saw each other. He had called me last thursday and then said something about coming over on that friday, he never showed or called but on sunday we did speak and he said he was sorry that he didn't blow me off that he had got called into work. He said that he likes me and that he isn't going anywhere. We ended the conversation as he had to go back to work. I have not heard anything from him since that day. Not sure if i should wait (i really like him he is everything that i was looking for) or just move on. confused is my name.
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06/15/05 09:26 AM
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Group: Registered Users Posts: 1647 Joined: 03/15/05 From: Southern US Relationship Status: In a Relationship |
move on,
If he wants to fit you in his life he will find time to do that. Maybe it's bad timing for him. Don't wait. Date others and stay busy. Then if he does get around to finding time for you don't be so available to him. Don't call him anymore or contact him. He needs to make some effort. lwc -------------------- -LWC-
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06/15/05 11:27 AM
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Group: Registered Users Posts: 339 Joined: 08/15/04 |
I don't have much to add--I totally agree with lady-with-class. He'll make time if he wants to. Get out there and explore your options!
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06/16/05 10:16 AM
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AMVU Freshman Gender:
Venusian
Group: Registered Users Posts: 6 Joined: 05/10/05 |
Thank you for your posts. He called me last night to tell me that he is re-arranging his work schedule so we can spend some time together. yippy. Again thank you.
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