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 Omg I Have It Bad :(, So so in love! Need some guidance... |
 03/02/10 04:31 PM
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Hi everyone!
Its refreshing to be here - and to not post about my ex! Yay I have moved on - and I am totally in love!! So I went on a few online dates.... and after about 13 *YES 13* dates.... lol I met THE one. Let's call him R. Now we hit it off online very quickly. We chatted and everything just felt right. After about 2 weeks I met him. He lives about 200 km from me... and he drove here and spend the weekend with friends. I met him both on the Saturday and Sunday. This past weekend he came through again, and we spend the both days together again on Saturday and Sunday. He has taken his profile off, although mine is still on. He calls at least once a day to check in... Now to my question. We keep on telling girls on here - that when a guy tells u he isn't ready to be in a relationship - you should believe him. I want to know if the opposite is also true? Lol it must be my head in the clouds that start to analyze things but he will say things like ... 1) I really like u - and would like to have a chance to make u happy 2) I enjoy your company 3) Personally I feel I am getting attached to you 4) In my eyes - you are THE one I've been waiting for.... Now - do u think its normal to say things like that. Can I just believe this... I also feel this guy wants to become sexual with me. He hhas mentioned to a friend that he has never felt this way - and he is also scared that he would be wasting his time. So do you think he is being honest? If we have to believe them when they say "I am not ready for a relationship"... Does the same goes for the positive things they say? I sound very insecure in this post. Just to clarify - lol he doesnt know anything about my insecurities. I'm this super confident woman when with him. Its just I really like him a LOT. I want to do this right... and now I struggle with trust 
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nati Omg I Have It Bad :( 03/02/10 04:31 PM
Northwestwanderer No, that has not been my experience. In fact, I... 03/02/10 04:43 PM anad Hi, Nati!
Its so good to see you back on the ... 03/02/10 04:44 PM Baby_Kisses Nati,
How wonderful you have met someone who make... 03/02/10 04:45 PM worththewait QUOTE Now - do u think its normal to say things li... 03/02/10 04:50 PM
anad QUOTE (worththewait @ 03/02/10 01:50 PM) ... 03/02/10 04:52 PM Phoenix51 Yes it is normal for some kinds of guy to say thin... 03/02/10 05:01 PM nati Wow u guys are quick! Thanks so much for the r... 03/02/10 05:10 PM worththewait QUOTE I know I should sit back and be receptive an... 03/02/10 08:45 PM Baby_Kisses "I can't remember where it is in the book... 03/02/10 09:42 PM jessicarabbit97 What JG was referring to is when you have that ins... 03/02/10 09:47 PM jessicarabbit97 BTW, I was answering one post, I haven't read ... 03/02/10 09:51 PM worththewait QUOTE I think it's important to be excited abo... 03/02/10 09:51 PM Baby_Kisses WTW,
Over time meaning more than a brief encounte... 03/02/10 10:02 PM anad Nati, its fun to feel excited in the early stages.... 03/03/10 01:40 AM nati Thanks everyone!
Yes I have my copy of M/V on... 03/03/10 05:21 AM petitefrog Well, get your head out of the clouds then! A... 03/03/10 08:18 AM debo021473 QUOTE (petitefrog @ 03/03/10 07:18 AM) I ... 03/03/10 09:30 AM ratiug He says that it's good when women, especially ... 03/03/10 09:21 AM jessicarabbit97 I think I've said that in your threads about 7... 03/03/10 09:29 AM ratiug I think I've said that in your threads about 7... 03/03/10 10:07 AM CuramachWoman Nati so happy that you have some good news to repo... 03/03/10 12:40 PM Brannet So happy for you that you've met someone you c... 03/04/10 01:29 PM nati Well we had another super great weekend.!... 03/07/10 04:15 PM anad Oh, Nati, you shurely did not listen to us...
You... 03/07/10 05:27 PM nati QUOTE (anad @ 03/07/10 11:27 PM) Oh, Nati... 03/08/10 02:29 AM Phoenix51 QUOTE (nati @ 03/08/10 06:29 AM) Yip I di... 03/08/10 03:04 PM nati QUOTE I have a question though. You guys have been... 03/08/10 03:35 PM Phoenix51 QUOTE (nati @ 03/08/10 07:35 PM) ........... 03/08/10 04:42 PM nati QUOTE (Phoenix51 @ 03/08/10 10:42 PM) ...... 03/09/10 02:51 AM anad oh, forgot to add...if you want to follow M/V prin... 03/07/10 05:28 PM sunshines Hi Nati...YAY & OMG and now you've gone an... 03/07/10 05:33 PM nati QUOTE (sunshines @ 03/07/10 11:33 PM) Hi ... 03/08/10 02:36 AM jerseygirl I think the biggest preventive thing you can do is... 03/07/10 06:34 PM sunshines Jersey that was a great story and definitely sooo ... 03/07/10 09:32 PM MBfromBoston If you're stressed about it then it was probab... 03/07/10 09:39 PM sunshines QUOTE He says he feels ready to have something lon... 03/08/10 09:13 AM worththewait Nati,
I think it is very important for you to rea... 03/08/10 11:36 AM jessicarabbit97 And I'm sure he meant that - TODAY.
Men are c... 03/08/10 11:52 AM nati Thanks again!
Urgh I dont know... lol. Cant k... 03/08/10 12:18 PM anad QUOTE (nati @ 03/08/10 09:18 AM) I am not... 03/08/10 12:40 PM Joy QUOTE I like that? Any other opinions about that.
... 03/08/10 12:42 PM sunshines First of all my experiences are few & far betw... 03/08/10 01:01 PM jessicarabbit97 I agree with Anad, but wanted to clarify one point... 03/08/10 03:08 PM anad QUOTE (jessicarabbit97 @ 03/08/10 12:08 P... 03/08/10 04:08 PM Equinox I am confused now. In M/V on a date JG describes ... 03/08/10 05:45 PM debo021473 It is the V's job to pace the relationship. N... 03/08/10 06:05 PM sunshines QUOTE Is this true? Is it in fact possible to buil... 03/09/10 09:23 AM jessicarabbit97 "False intimacy" is anytime you feel lik... 03/09/10 12:54 PM Northwestwanderer Glad to hear you are feeling more realistic--I thi... 03/09/10 04:45 PM  |
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