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 incentive for marriage, why should he marry you |
 06/24/05 08:16 PM
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I just heard a program today and the msg was..
If a man absolutely loves, respects and adores a woman, he marries her. He doesn't just shack up with her.. Of course host of the program was a lady.. If you're available and sex is there, he shack up with you instead of marrying you.. Now,, how many friends do YOU know who are or have been living with a guy without a ring on her finger? I know a couple, and she's been living with him for over 3 years.. Still no M word... yes, she cooks, cleans, does his gardening, gives him SEX AND buys groceries with HER money. She claims she gets "free" rent... but is it really free? First, he needs a place to live anyway, so he is gonna have to pay rent SOMEWHERE. Second, she does all the labor in exchange for it. It seems to me a lot of men do not want to get married unless there are some "incentives" to gain. If you provide sex, all the convenience, what incentives does he have to marry you really? As adage goes... why get cow when you can get all the milk? So I am thinking maybe I am going to have to wait until my honeymoon day to give him sex? -------------------- trust your heart... it's your best teacher.
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pinky incentive for marriage 06/24/05 08:16 PM
Cimaron I agree with the program host. If I love, respect ... 06/25/05 12:45 AM superdave Pinky,
If you feel like you should wait until you... 06/25/05 01:33 AM PeggyMac I have a number of friends who decided to wait unt... 06/25/05 01:51 AM pinky Great comments everyone
I know it will be hard ... 06/25/05 01:27 PM em222 Pinky, I gotta tell you...I'm leaning toward w... 06/25/05 02:11 PM Cimaron QUOTE (pinky @ Jun 25 2005, 09:27 AM)I do not... 06/25/05 04:45 PM pinky Hi Em,
So I guess no sex doens't mean steady ... 06/25/05 05:38 PM em222 Hey Pinky...I think we had a "steady" re... 06/26/05 09:26 AM pinky Cimaron,
It's so good to see martian's po... 06/26/05 02:41 PM pinky Em,
I know Dr Gray talked about this in his MV bo... 06/26/05 02:52 PM silentteddy Not wishing to be the "advocatus diabili... 06/26/05 04:02 PM em222 Pinky et al, I have mulled this situation over in ... 06/26/05 08:41 PM Cimaron QUOTE (pinky @ Jun 26 2005, 10:41 AM)One Q co... 06/26/05 09:00 PM superdave Very valid points Teddy. I especially like the la... 06/26/05 09:58 PM butterbean04 I agree with Silenteddy, I gotta test drive the ca... 06/26/05 10:38 PM pinky Hi teddy,
You have a point. That's one thing... 06/26/05 11:38 PM natalia I'm waiting until marriage to have sex and I... 06/27/05 11:31 AM pinky QUOTE (Cimaron @ Jun 26 2005, 05:00 PM)I thin... 06/27/05 04:21 PM Cimaron Natalia, I agree with you 100%.
Once I learn a wo... 06/27/05 05:07 PM jerseygirl Cimaron, I respect your views, but can't fatho... 06/27/05 06:55 PM muggins QUOTE (Cimaron @ Jun 27 2005, 01:07 PM)I figu... 06/27/05 06:55 PM pinky Natalie,
So, I guess your story is supporting ... 06/27/05 07:50 PM pinky Cimaron,
I don't know if you read my previous... 06/27/05 07:53 PM pinky Just my opinion...
Backing up Natalie's post,... 06/27/05 07:57 PM muggins Err... jinx, jerseygirl.... 06/27/05 11:29 PM Cimaron QUOTE (jerseygirl @ Jun 27 2005, 02:55 PM)Cim... 06/27/05 11:47 PM Cimaron QUOTE (pinky @ Jun 27 2005, 03:53 PM)I agree ... 06/28/05 12:10 AM Cimaron QUOTE (pinky @ Jun 27 2005, 12:21 PM)I didn... 06/28/05 12:43 AM pinky OK OK Ladies,
I didn't mean to provoke an argu... 06/28/05 02:41 AM natalia Yes, Pinky I support no sex until marriage and you... 06/28/05 10:53 AM natalia To Silentteddy- I'm kind of surprised that you... 06/28/05 10:56 AM Cimaron Wow, Natalia, you're awesome! Great post.
... 06/28/05 01:43 PM pinky QUOTE (Cimaron @ Jun 27 2005, 08:10 PM)So it ... 06/28/05 05:01 PM natalia Awww Cimaron, trust me the feeling is mutual! ... 06/28/05 06:49 PM muggins QUOTE (pinky @ Jun 27 2005, 10:41 PM)OK OK La... 06/28/05 07:20 PM jerseygirl I need the "test drive", too! 06/28/05 09:18 PM pinky Addressing specifically to Natali's comment..
... 06/28/05 11:05 PM pinky I have a friend who slept with a guy after 3rd dat... 06/28/05 11:05 PM gingercat Dear pinky,
Would you consider going for a guy wh... 06/30/05 01:38 AM natalia Hi Pinky,
Right now I post to you from South Ame... 06/30/05 11:54 PM lady-with-class Natalie,
Congratulations and my best wishes for y... 07/01/05 02:01 PM natalia Hi lady-with-class,
Thank you or your sweet words... 07/01/05 06:25 PM SlavetoLove I can understand the concern with sexual compatabi... 07/01/05 08:28 PM pinky Natalie,
You misread some of my statement. I did... 07/01/05 08:30 PM pinky QUOTE (gingercat @ Jun 29 2005, 09:38 PM)Woul... 07/01/05 08:40 PM pinky One more thing I wanted to add to Natalie is..
I ... 07/01/05 08:56 PM lady-with-class I guess one thing I should add is that most men (n... 07/01/05 09:42 PM superdave I wouldn't worry about if he's into you lw... 07/02/05 12:04 AM lady-with-class Natalia,
Thanks for responding. I've been awa... 07/03/05 10:56 PM pinky QUOTE (lady-with-class @ Jul 3 2005... 07/04/05 08:32 PM jerseygirl Pinky, did you ever date an Aries, and did it work... 07/05/05 12:09 AM pinky Well, I shouldn't really be posting this here ... 07/05/05 01:24 AM gingercat Dear Pinky,
My ex-f finally e-mailed me after one... 07/05/05 06:51 AM pinky Jersey,
I used to NOT believe in all that zodic s... 07/05/05 11:17 AM pinky Does anyone have any thoughts on my post I wrote ... 07/05/05 11:31 AM pinky Ginger,
Sexual compatibility is important to me. ... 07/05/05 11:41 AM lady-with-class I think with my x he would have left me regardless... 07/05/05 11:44 AM lady-with-class Pinky,
I think it's great that you have offere... 07/05/05 12:18 PM tuffluv Pinky:
First of all I agree with you 100% - sexua... 07/05/05 02:29 PM lady-with-class Oh Pinky,
I am so intuitive! I posted my last... 07/05/05 02:51 PM pinky CS,
yeah in a perfect world, we could confess all... 07/05/05 07:03 PM harleycat hi pinky,
sorry to get off the track - but ... 07/05/05 10:50 PM pinky Tuffluv and CS,
thanks for sheding light on this ... 07/05/05 11:07 PM pinky I am still going over what HE said versus what ... 07/05/05 11:54 PM pinky CS gf,
you really have a lot of love and patience... 07/06/05 12:09 AM lady-with-class Hey funky chicken,
Thanks for the cancer input. Go... 07/06/05 10:15 AM pinky Harleycat,
How does he "show" his inter... 07/06/05 11:16 AM gingercat Dear Pinky,
Is your guy a Cancer? If not, what zo... 07/06/05 12:10 PM pinky QUOTE (lady-with-class @ Jul 6 2005... 07/06/05 12:24 PM pinky QUOTE (gingercat @ Jul 6 2005, 08:10 AM)I wil... 07/06/05 02:39 PM pinky Oh Ginger,
forgot to tell you he is a Sagi.. the... 07/06/05 02:42 PM lady-with-class Oh Pinky,
I know its frustrating. But don't gi... 07/06/05 05:29 PM lady-with-class Pinky,
I just re-read the first message you starte... 07/06/05 09:01 PM gingercat Dear Pinky,
Sometimes i do think that you need to... 07/06/05 10:58 PM gingercat Dear CS,
I will visit my ex-f near the end of the... 07/06/05 11:23 PM pinky CS.
you're right. I need to put my heart out... 07/07/05 12:07 AM pinky QUOTE (lady-with-class @ Jul 6 2005... 07/07/05 02:02 AM pinky Just an update..
me and my guy are through.. yep ... 07/07/05 06:45 PM pinky Ginger,
You being a Cancer, maybe you can tell m... 07/07/05 10:55 PM pinky OK, what I am going to talk about is irrelevant to... 07/08/05 01:44 AM gingercat Dear Pinky,
Don't be so hard on yourself and ... 07/08/05 06:10 AM lady-with-class Oh My Gosh,
I miss one day and look what happens... 07/08/05 09:37 AM lady-with-class Gingercat,
I'm sorry you had a little set bac... 07/08/05 09:55 AM pinky Hi Ginger,
As far as I see it, we're through.... 07/08/05 02:36 PM gingercat Dear Pinky,
My exf still hasn't replied yet a... 07/08/05 11:31 PM gingercat Dear Pinky,
I think that as a Cancer both you and... 07/08/05 11:48 PM gingercat Dear CS,
I think you are right about my xf in the... 07/09/05 12:04 AM mistybluegirl Hi Miss Pinky!
Ok- I've read all the post... 07/09/05 12:54 AM gingercat Dear CS and Pinky,
My exf still hasn't replie... 07/12/05 10:48 AM lady-with-class Gingercat,
Did you ask him specific questions that... 07/12/05 12:16 PM gingercat Dear CS,
I did ask my exf some specific questions... 07/12/05 11:12 PM pinky Hi Ginger,
I just got back from 5 day trip so hav... 07/13/05 01:03 AM lady-with-class Hey Pinky, Welcome back! How was your trip?
... 07/13/05 09:49 AM gingercat Dear Pinky,
I am not saying that i am not giving ... 07/13/05 10:27 AM shy girl QUOTE (PeggyMac @ Jun 24 2005, 09:51 PM)I hav... 07/25/05 02:19 PM SlavetoLove Wrt Cancer men, I agree that they are totally devo... 07/26/05 06:37 AM Searchingjuliet The incentive is love. Believe me whether you... 07/26/05 11:55 AM Cimaron A lady I've been seeing recently invited me ov... 07/26/05 06:59 PM
nomad Just wanted to reply to the overall message of thi... 07/27/05 07:34 PM  |
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